:+:M3 @ku wO:+:

-No-more-11-

2011-12-30T17:52:00.003+08:00

It's the last Friday of the year 2011 today :D

Have you done what you planned to do in 2011?

While studying for Fundamental Of Nursing just now,
suddenly there's this urge to write a review on 2011.

Wait~
Tahan dulu, Lim Li Kar!

Will need to spend a lot of time on that post
so
I better stick to my original plan.

Study for final first ><"

*grumbling*
Start my new year with exams...zzzz""

So...
guess I'll have to
leave it until 13th January 2012.

Dear 2011,
tata~

雨下一整天

2011-12-25T22:39:00.003+08:00

It's my first Christmas here in Kuching, Sarawak.

First time ever in my life
that I encounter such heavy downpour on Dec 25.

The rain started at about 12.30am
on Christmas day.

It's 10.45pm already
and the rain continues like
it's been 10 years of drought =.=

. . .

Yesterday was my boring-est Christmas Eve ever!

Planned to go for Japanese buffet and movie initially
but all the girls were busy studying for
their End of Block exam...

Luckily Magret invited me over to her house
for a simple Christmas dinner :D

Went back to hostel and study after the dinner.

Study!
Li Kar STUDIED on Christmas Eve!!

Ommo~!!

Sound so not me ><"

Oh well~

As expected,
Christmas this year will be boring without my KL friends around me.

Still,
Thank God for his guidance, protection
and
not forgetting His greatest Love.

Receive a couple of presents
and
loving my buddy's sweet potato soup ^-^ *wee*

10 Things You Probably Do Not Know About Me

2011-06-26T21:17:00.003+08:00

I seldom eat fruits not because I don’t like them but because I’m too lazy to cut/peel off the skin.
I keep long finger nails so that my fingers looked longer.
I don’t like to use Facebook chat.
I want to look good not to attract other people but myself (self-satisfactory).
I type all questions in a single sms to save money $$.
I feel annoyed when people thinks that ‘lip balm = lipstick’.
I find that guys with thick eyebrow are good-looking.
I always wish that my future spouse is someone who can make decision for me and yet, not a control freak.
I find that tomboys are cool.
I love to look at infants’ shoes even though I can’t fit in them.
I’m posting this to keep my blog alive =P

嚴爵 - 好的事情

2011-06-21T13:27:00.001+08:00

休息是为了走更长的路
xiū xi shì wèi le zǒu gèng cháng de lù
你就是我的旅途
nǐ jiù shì wǒ de lǚ tú
都是因为你我一直漫步
dōu shì yīn wèi nǐ wǒ yì zhí màn bù

想要跟你一起走到最后
xiǎng yào gēn nǐ yì qǐ zǒu dào zuì hòu
但我遗失了地图
dàn wǒ yí shī le dì tú
谁给谁束缚谁比谁辛苦
shuí gěi shuí shù fù shuí bǐ shuí xīn kǔ
爱到深处才会领悟
ài dào shēn chù cái huì lǐng wù

好的事情最后虽然结束
hǎo de shì qíng zuì hòu suī rán jié shù
感动十分就有十分满足
gǎn dòng shí fēn jiù yǒu shí fēn mǎn zú
谢谢你是你陪我走过那些路
xiè xiè nǐ shì nǐ péi wǒ zǒu guò nà xiē lù
痛是以后无法再给你幸福
tòng shì yǐ hòu wú fǎ zài gěi nǐ xìng fú
好的事情也许能够重复
hǎo de shì qíng yé xǔ néng gòu chóng fù
感动时分就算纷纷模糊
gǎn dòng shí fēn jiù suàn fēn fēn mó hu
不要哭至少你和我记得很清楚
bú yào kū zhì shǎo nǐ hé wǒ jì dé hěn qīng chu
爱是为彼此祝福
ài shì wéi bí cǐ zhù fú

Will Homosexual makes a better Life Partner?

2011-05-24T23:02:00.002+08:00

About an hour ago,
I watched a video posted by my junior on Facebook.

A video which was recorded

by a pair of gay partner.

They hug,
They smooch,

and

They kissed.

At first,

I feel it is kinda 'yucky' ><

seeing two guys kissing each other.

But,

as I continue to watch the 5 minutes video clip,

my impression towards them change.

The way they look at each other...

They looked at each other in the eye...

The way they feed each other...
The way they cuddles...
...
They actually looked more intimate

than other normal couples.

They LOVE each other.

AND...

I actually feel Happy for them...

SERIOUSLY!

@@!

I never see any couple can be so sweet like them in reality.

Well,
maybe I never meet such sweet normal couple yet~

Just then,

I started to wonder...

Will Homosexual makes a better Life Partner?

Why I think so?

A guy knows what a guy really wants from their 'girlfriend'/spouse.

Thus,

a man...

well know about what his partner wants,

will be able to make him happier

and

would stand a higher compatibility with another man

comparing to woman.

Somehow...

It makes sense, right?

hurmm...

張學友 & 梅艷芳 - 相愛很難

2011-05-07T13:38:00.001+08:00

女:
最好有生一日都愛下去
但誰人能將戀愛當做終生興趣
男:
生活其實旨在找到個伴侶
面對現實熱戀很快變長流細水
女:
可惜我不智或僥幸
對火花天生敏感
男:
不過兩隻手拉得太緊

合:
愛到過了界那對愛人
同時亦最易變成一對敵人
也許相愛很難
就難在其實雙方各有各寄望
怎麼辦
要單戀都難
受太大的禮會內疚卻也無力歸還
也許不愛不難
但如未成佛升仙也會怕
愛情前途黯淡
愛不愛都難
未快樂先有責任給予對方面露歡顏

女:
得到浪漫又要有空間
男:
得到定局卻怕去到終站
合:
然后付出多得到少不介意豁達
又擔心有人看不過眼

女:
可惜我不智或僥幸
對火花天生敏感
男:
不過兩隻手拉得太緊

合:
愛到過了界那對愛人
同時亦最易變成一對敵人
也許相愛很難
就難在其實雙方各有各寄望
怎麼辦
要單戀都難
受太大的禮會內疚卻也無力歸還
也許不愛不難
但如未成佛升仙也會怕
愛情前途黯淡
愛不愛都難
未快樂先有責任給予對方面露歡顏

女:
得到浪漫又要有空間
男:
得到定局卻怕去到終站
合:
然后付出多得到少不介意豁達
又擔心有人看不過眼
無論熱戀中失戀中
都永遠記住第一戒
別要張開雙眼

戀人未滿 ♥

2011-04-04T21:49:00.001+08:00

by S.H.E.

為什麼只和你能聊一整夜
wei shen me zhi he ni neng liao yi zheng ye
Why is it that I only can talk to you for the whole night

為什麼才道別就又想再見面
wei shen me cai dao bie jiu you xiang zai jian mian
why is it that after we leave I feel like meeting you again

在朋友裡面就數你最特別
zai peng you li mian, jiu shu ni zui te bie
Out of all my friends, you're the most special

總讓我覺得很親很貼
zong rang wo jue de hen qin hen tian
I feel that you're the closest to me

為什麼你在意誰陪我逛街
we shen me ni zai yi shuo pei wo guang jie,
Why do you care who I go shopping with,

為什麼你擔心誰對我放電
wei shen me ni dan xin shui dui wo fang dian
why are you worried that someone would try to seduce me

你說你對我比別人多一些
ni shuo ni dui wo, bi bie ren duo yi xie,
You said you treat me more than others,

卻又不說是多哪一些
que you bu shuo shi duo na yi xie
but as to where the "more" is, you wouldn't say

友達以上戀人未滿甜蜜心煩愉悅混亂
you da yi shang, lian ren wei man, tian mi xin fan, yu yue hun luan,
We're more than friends, but not yet lovers, our hearts are sweet and happy

我們以後會變怎樣
wo men yi hou hui bian zen yang,

In future, What will happen to us,

我迫不及待想知道答案
wo po bu ji dai xiang zhi dao da an,
I can't wait for find out the answer.

再靠近一點點就讓你牽手

zai kao jin yi dian dian jiu rang ni qian shou,

Come closer a little Then I'll let you hold my hand.

再勇敢一點點我就跟你走
zai yong gan yi dian dian, wo jiu gen ni zou,

Be braver a little and I'll go with you.

你還等什麼
ni hai deng shen me
What are you waiting for

時間已經不多再下去
shi jian yi jing bu duo, zai xia qu,
There isn't much time left, if we continue like this

只好只做朋友
zhi hao zhi zuo peng you,
we can only be friends.

再向前一點點我就會點頭

zai xiang qian yi dian dian, wo jiu hui dian tou,

Come forward a little And I'll nod my head,

再衝動一點點我就不閃躲
zai cong dong yi dian dian, wo jiu bu shan duo
be more pro-active and I won't hide

不過三個字 ,

bu guo san ge zi,

it's only three words

別猶豫這麼久
bie you yu zhe me jiu, ,
Don't hesitate too long,

只要你說出口你就能擁有我
zhi yao ni shuo chu kou ni jiu neng yong you wo,
as long as you can say it, you'll have me.

為什麼你寂寞只想要我陪
wei shen me ni ji mo zhi xiang yao wo pei,
Why is it That when you're lonely you only want my companion?

為什麼我難過只肯讓你安慰
wei shen me wo nan guo zhi ken rang ni an wei,
Why is it that when I'm sad I'm only willing to have you console me?

我們心裡面
wo men xin li mian
In our hearts

明明都有感覺
ming ming dou you gan jue,
There's definitely a feeling,

為什麼不敢面對
wei shen me bu gan mian dui,
why don't we face it.

為什麼你寂寞只想要我陪
wei shen me ni ji mo zhi xiang yao wo pei,
Why is it That when you're lonely you only want my companion?

為什麼我難過只肯讓你安慰
wei shen me wo nan guo zhi ken rang ni an wei,
Why is it that when I'm sad I'm only willing to have you console me?

我們心裡面
wo men xin li mian
In our hearts

明明都有感覺
ming ming dou you gan jue,
There's definitely a feeling,

為什麼不敢面對
wei shen me bu gan mian dui
why don't we face it.

友達以上戀人未滿甜蜜心煩愉悅混亂
you da yi shang, lian ren wei man, tian mi xin fan, yu yue hun luan,
We're more than friends, but not yet lovers, our hearts are sweet and happy

我們以後會變怎樣
wo men yi hou hui bian zen yang,

In future, What will happen to us,

我迫不及待想知道答案
wo po bu ji dai xiang zhi dao da an,
I can't wait for find out the answer.

再靠近一點點就讓你牽手

zai kao jin yi dian dian jiu rang ni qian shou,

Come closer a little Then I'll let you hold my hand.

再勇敢一點點我就跟你走
zai yong gan yi dian dian, wo jiu gen ni zou,

Be braver a little and I'll go with you.

你還等什麼
ni hai deng shen me
What are you waiting for

時間已經不多再下去
shi jian yi jing bu duo, zai xia qu,
There isn't much time left, if we continue like this

只好只做朋友
zhi hao zhi zuo peng you,
we can only be friends.

再向前一點點我就會點頭

zai xiang qian yi dian dian, wo jiu hui dian tou,

Come forward a little And I'll nod my head,

再衝動一點點我就不閃躲
zai cong dong yi dian dian, wo jiu bu shan duo
be more pro-active and I won't hide

不過三個字 ,

bu guo san ge zi,

it's only three words

別猶豫這麼久
bie you yu zhe me jiu, ,
Don't hesitate too long,

只要你說出口你就能擁有我
zhi yao ni shuo chu kou ni jiu neng yong you wo,
as long as you can say it, you'll have me.

我不相信都動了感情
wo bu xiang xin, dou dong le gan qing
I don't believe, we already touched each others' hearts,

卻到不了
que dao bu liao
yet it hasn't transformed into

愛情那麼貼心卻進不了
ai qing, na me tie xin que jin bu liao,
Love, that dedication still cannot enter the

心底你能不能快一點決定
xin di, ni neng bu neng kuai yi dian jue ding
bottom of (your) heart, can you quickly decide

對我說我愛你
dui wo shuo wo ai ni
And tell me "I love you"

再靠近一點點就讓你牽手

zai kao jin yi dian dian jiu rang ni qian shou,

Come closer a little Then I'll let you hold my hand.

再勇敢一點點我就跟你走
zai yong gan yi dian dian, wo jiu gen ni zou,

Be braver a little and I'll go with you.

你還等什麼
ni hai deng shen me
What are you waiting for

時間已經不多再下去
shi jian yi jing bu duo, zai xia qu,
There isn't much time left, if we continue like this

只好只做朋友
zhi hao zhi zuo peng you,
we can only be friends.

再向前一點點我就會點頭

zai xiang qian yi dian dian, wo jiu hui dian tou,

Come forward a little And I'll nod my head,

再衝動一點點我就不閃躲
zai cong dong yi dian dian, wo jiu bu shan duo
be more pro-active and I won't hide

不過三個字 ,

bu guo san ge zi,

it's only three words

別猶豫這麼久
bie you yu zhe me jiu, ,
Don't hesitate too long,

只要你說出口你就能擁有我
zhi yao ni shuo chu kou ni jiu neng yong you wo,
as long as you can say it, you'll have me.

只要你說出口你就能擁有我
zhi yao ni shuo chu kou, ni jiu neng yong you wo
as long as you can say it, you'll have me.

I Did It Again

2011-04-03T00:20:00.002+08:00

I hurt someone's feeling again.

Sigh...

Feel so bad
but it'll be even worst if I give him false hope.

Wasting too much money on me

will only make me feel guilty.

Not that he's not good enough,
but it is me who's not ready to commit myself in a relationship yet.

I hope you understand.

I'm sorry...

All this while...

2011-03-20T22:11:00.005+08:00

I'm wrong?

I never thought you can forget about it so fast.

Even for me,

I couldn't.

I remain single because I respect our past relationship...
and I will continue to do so for now.

Anyway,
I sincerely wish you'll be happy =)

Kenangan bersama, Tiada kulupa

2011-01-10T21:25:00.003+08:00

Didn't know that you have such big influence to me

until I wanted to blog

'about you'.

Yes.

erm...

Not you,

but...

It's because of you ><.

I mean...yea...

Now that we're not as close as what we used to be...

ah~

I should say we're not close anymore =/

So,

I thought you don't mean so much to me anymore.

. . . . .

I saw someone looks exactly like you

in LRT when I'm on my way home today.

I thought he was you

and I was like o.0!!!

Both of you have the same deep, big, round eyes =).

But he's not as muscular as you,

and I think he's a lil shorter than you.

. . . . .

Ah~~~

Suddenly miss you a lot =(

I wonder how have you been doing right now.

I wonder if you ever think of me right now.

I wonder if you still remember what you've told me.

I wonder if you still remember those days....

Here,

I dedicate this song to you dear Abdul Rahman Abdul Hamid =)

Memori Tercipta

by Shila

Bergetar jiwa dipersada bercahaya
Pertemuan harapan pertama kalinya
Bergetar jiwa menghadapi mimpi-mimpi
Sukar dipercaya pintunya terbuka

Di sini jua memori tercipta
Walau seketika terjalin kasih kita
Mungkin disini kita kan terpisah
Kenangan bersama tiada kulupa

Mengalun suara sesuri bisikan hati
Seiringan mencari haluan berseni
Bergetar jiwa menghadapi mimpi-mimpi
Tiada pon terduga pintunya terbuka

Di sini jua memori tercipta
Walau seketika terjalin kasih kita
Mungkin di sini kita kan terpisah
Kenangan bersama tiada ku lupa

Yang terpahit jua termanis
Semuanya bagiku terindah
Kuingati buat selama-lamanya

Di sini jua memori tercipta
Walau seketika terjalin kasih kita
Mungkin disini kita kan terpisah
Kenangan bersama tiada kulupa

Mungkin disini kita kan terpisah
Kenangan bersama (3x)
Mungkin disini kita kan terpisah
Kenangan bersama tiada kulupa

Wish list

2010-12-18T23:56:00.006+08:00

There are lots and LOTS of things that I wanted to buy

So so SO SOOO much.

Here’s my running wish list for 2010/2011 ;D

First of all,

I need to reduce my dark eye circle T.T

I need an eye cream soooo much…

waalahh~~ 24K Bio-Gold anti-dark circles essence

Envy those pretty babe that has long and thick lashes

That they do not need any falsie ><”

And now L’oreal Paris has this product known as

Lash Renewal Serum

I wanna grab one of this XD

~envy no more~

Every lass out there would die for high heels

And 6 inches tall heels will actually ~~kills~~ you, girl =.=

Thus,

I want a pair of 2.5 – 3 inches tall heels.

But nice lower heels has almost extinct ><”

arggg~

I’m getting boring with my bag.

It seems like I have too much white bags ><”

I need something new and attractive…hee~

I’m desperate for braces!!!!

I need to put on braces!!!!

I must put on braces!!!! ><

In order to get rid of my ~~flat breast~~,

I think I need this >>>

-Triumph International boost and comfort bra-

But one piece of this will cost me RM300++

Ouch ><”

Wait till I become rich first.

Curling tongs~!!

-Cute pink curling tongs-

I don’t really need this laa…

But sometimes wanted to get rid of my boring long hair.

yea~

hehe =P

I’m broke currently.

I’m so so broke T.T

So,

I’ll have to keep the list until next year la =(

And this is the reason why I’m broke

Look at the Disney cuties plush toy

They’re just too cute!! ^-^

I’m gonna grab myself a Pooh plush toy.

Haiz….

That’s why I’m broke lorrr

I spend too much in Guardian la.

I get only one sticker for every RM20 I’ve spend

And now I’ve only collected 9

T_________T

16 more to go so that I can buy the plush toy at RM39.90

Coz I know I cant collect 60 sticker…it’s IMPOSSIBLE!

-Off to bed-

Chaos~

It's A Happy Day =)

2010-12-17T21:46:00.006+08:00

STPM had just over~!!!!

*woohoooo~~*

We try to do something crazy before we leave our ~~beloved~~ school.

So, what we do is…

We press the car’s ‘hon’ button as we leave the school XD

Kinda scare the security guard will scold us =$

*kekeke~*

Five of us;

-YiTing

-Kay

-Candace

-Esther

And me

Go to Cheras Leisure Mall.

We have lunch at Wong Kok first before heading to movie.

Wanna watch Rapunzel but the only available time is at 10.10pm T_T

And we thought of watching Narnia.

But we ended up watching Just Call Me Nobody.

Xiao Xiao Pin is damn cute lo <3

But he appear for about 5 minutes only

Ishhh!!

Feel cheated by the poster.

Overall,

The movie is so funny

But no point wan ><”

. . .

Next station is Candace’s house^-^

I keep chanting in the car that the rain will not stop

So that we wont have to go to swim lo.

But the weather dun like me that much la

And the rain eventually stop when we reach her house =S grrr…

I have no choice but to wear Candace’s sis’s swimsuit

Coz I dun own one since I dunno how to swim.

Show off my sexy back with tat swimsuit XD

But with my ~~flat breast~~ and ~~oily thighs~~,

I looked sucks ><”

Play with the pool water.

Play till fingers all ‘chao pei’ dy =P

Kay Kay try to teach me how to ‘kick’ water

But I’m just too stupid la (>.<)

Then went to mamak king for dinner.

End of the story =)

Arigato <3

hee~~

. . .

Stay at home whole day today.

Thought of going for facial treatment

But fully booked dy.

Mum bought me nasi lemak for lunch today.

The nasi lemak doesn’t taste very very nice dohh

But feel extremely happy with the meal

Coz the nasi lemak seller is a nice person ^-^

When one's mind goes the other way

2010-12-09T20:42:00.004+08:00

I actually wanna give this post entry's title as

Kanasai.

Because I wanted to express

how kanasai My Mathematics T 1 was.

But just before I write anything on this page,

I received a sms from a dear friend

telling me that

my junior's ex-boyfriend

had committed suicide.

I went to his Facebook page

to check out on him

and

I find out that it is true.

http://www.laksou.com/?m=nation_more&id=5371

He jump from his house 2am in the morning today.

A sudden depress stroke me in the heart.

I do not know this guy....

He's just another boyfriend of my junior.

But...

It is so heart-aching when I read

those thousands of comments

from his friends.

I cried when I read this:

"FUCK U SOHAI KONG ! JUMP MAT 7 ! U DUMP ALL YOUR FRIENDS HERE U KNOW !! FUCKER SO LAN 9 HAI !! U tot that is game ?! very fun ?! cb u made me cry cause of u !! FUCKER !! RETURN LIVE NOW !!"

"sohai fucker kong wake up la IDIOT ! NOW ME SPAMMING YOUR WALL JOR ! YOUR ACT NO MORE!! WAKE UP N STOP ME LA !! WTF U !!"

Yes.

People are angry with you

because you left them this way...

All of a sudden...

I agree with those who thinks that

He's so damn fucking stupid to die for a girl...

A 4 months old relationship.

And he is stupid enough

to choose to die

when he knows he loves his family a lot

and even post that on his Facebook wall.

I'm not scolding him...

Just ....

I do not agree with his way of handling stuff.

sigh...

Pity him who cant think rationally =(.

Oh well!

This is it!

When there is Life, There is Love.

That's is why Life is always related to Love.

People survive and live with Love.

When we're born,

we are loved by our very own family members...

Our relatives...

As we grow up,

we found another little soul out there...

of similar age and we make friends.

And so, we are loved by our friends

Soon,

we went to school

and we are loved by the teachers...

And

as we grow older,

we found someone...

of similar interest,

of similar perspective,

fun to be with

and we thought;

"We are meant to be together"

Just like any other teenagers out there,

we involve ourselves in a relationship.

And...we are loved by 'our loves one'...

Some peoples just could not

differentiate the relation between earthly Love and Life.

They tie a dead knot between these two element.

And so,

When their Love ends,

Their Life ends.

Leaving behind footprints in the heart

of those who have had you in their life.

Grief and sorrow of those

who loves you surround the atmosphere.

How pathetic!

One should love oneself first

before they love others.

Only those who appreciate life

will know how to love.

Getting no Love from other people

Doesn't mean Life is no longer meaningful,

Doesn't mean Life is no longer colourful,

Doesn't mean Life have nothing better to do than to DIE.

We Love because God first Loves us.

God's Love is no other like the way earthly people love.

Only His loves for us will NEVER Fade.

So,

Bear In Mind!!

When everyone turns their backs on you,

Do Not Give Up Your Life!!

Because we can always turns to God =)

"Be strong and courageous.

Do not be afraid or terrified because of them,

for the Lord your God goes with you;

he will never leave you nor forsake you"

Deuteronomy 31:6

--Rest In Peace, Alvis Kong--

Would you please STOP discouraging me?

2010-12-07T11:30:00.004+08:00

Why must you discourage me??

I’m NOT a small little girl anymore.

I’m going to be 20 already.

I can think better than the way I used to be.

I’m getting more mature

And,

So I can think rationally.

Yes,

You are right.

I never experience it before

So I won’t know how pain it is.

But,

You never know

How pain it is when I looked at my own picture.

You never know

How I wish I can smile freely.

You never know

How it affect my lower set of teeth.

You never know

How bad it had affected my oral health.

You never know…

There was once I try to tell you

But you will never listen.

You just….

…Just will not listen to me.

I’ve decided

And

I’ll endure the pain.

So,

Please….

Please stop discouraging me.

Sigh…..

因為愛 (Because of love)

2010-12-02T08:07:00.002+08:00

by Weibird 韋禮安 (Wei Li An)

有些事情
you xie shi qing

There’s something
我也说不明白
wo ye shuo bu ming bai

I don’t understand
想和你在一起，
xiang he ni zai yi qi

Wants to be with you
为什么舍不得分开
wei shen me she bu de fen kai

Why could not bear to separate
或许我软弱，
huo xu wo ruan ruo

Perhaps, I’m weak
也害怕失败
ye hai pa shi bai

Also fear of failure
但有你的笑容
dan you ni de xiao rong

But with your smile
就能让我再站起来
jiu neng rang wo zai zhan qi lai

I can stand up again

你曾问我是什么
ni ceng wen wo shi shen me

You once asked me what is it
令我对你难以忘怀
ling wo dui ni nan yi wang huai

That make me could never forget you
我也曾经想过
wo ye ceng jing xiang guo

I have thought about it too
这种感觉说不出来
zhe zhong gan jue shuo bu chu lai

Such feeling is difficult to express
我现在才明白
wo xian zai cai ming bai

Now only I understand

因为爱，所以爱，
yin wei ai suo yi ai

Because of love, Therefore love
珍惜在一起的愉快
zhen xi zai yi qi de yu kuai

Treasures the happiness being together
一分开，你不在，
yi fen kai ni bu zai

Once separated, you’re not here
怀念空气里的对白
huai nian kong qi li de dui bai

Miss our dialogue in the air
因为爱，所以爱，
yin wei ai suo yi ai

Because of love, Therefore love
让我付出我的关怀
rang wo fu chu wo de guan huai

Let me pay my care
不管风吹或日晒，
bu guan feng chui huo ri shai

Regardless of wind or sun
我才明白一切都是因为爱
wo cai ming bai yi qie dou shi yin wei ai

I just understand it’s all because of love

This is a simple song with simple lyrics =)

Loves Wei Li An's voice <3

How To Study

2010-11-26T14:03:00.002+08:00

How to Study – by Don Frank

Most students tend to believe that doing many exercises would help them understand something better. Well, it is only true if you have understood the concepts well but what if you don’t? The answer is that you become more confused than you were before.

There are two types of learners, namely holistic learner and shallow learner. Holistic learner is the one who has very strong and logical understanding about certain topics but shallow learner uses rote memory.
It is without doubt that most students resort to rote memory learning today because it is one of the easiest and at the same time, one of the most ineffective and time-consuming learning process. For example, shallow learners, while learning PA kertas 1, they tend to memorise all the facts instead of understanding them. By understanding I mean knowing the intuition behind something you learn.

I found that our brain will only remember things that come with logical reasons. The stronger the reasons, the longer it will remember. For example, if your friend tells you that A = B and and he explains why A = B, you would remember it with ease but if he never explains the intuition behind, your brain will struggle in remembering (such is the problem in rote memory learning).

1) Always understand the intuition behind something that you learn. For example, learn how to derive certain formulae instead of memorising them.

Let say for a chemical reaction – aA + bB <—> cC + dD
Its equilibrium constant, Keq = [C]^c . [D]^d / [A]^a . [b]^b

Why should we times the exponent a for [A]? Have your teachers ever taught you how do they derive Keq? I guess most teachers don’t.

If you want to know how, go here http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ONBJo7dXJm8&feature=fvsr

2) Uses your internal dialogue to learn.

Internal dialogue is the sentences that people tell themselves and the debate that often goes on “inside their head” a form of self-talk, or inner speech.

You talk to yourself on how to solve a certain question, when you are making decisions or when you are choosing which path to go in future and so on and so forth and in the end you choose. So internal dialogue is something that we do since the moment we are born. So how are you going to use it in your learning process? Well, whenever you come across any topics that are mind-blowing, you must use internal dialogue to learn. You must try to give yourself some reasons why something occurs, why is it so, why is that so and so on. Even if your reasons are ludricous, so be it. The stronger the opinions you have towards that certain topic, the better is your understanding and your memory towards that particular subject. The important thing is that you keep talking to yourself about that topic until your brain accepts it without a shadow of doubt.

*The more logical is your reasons, the better your brain can accept and thus remember for a long time. I’m using this to learn biology, chemistry and most of the subjects that are quite abstrative.

3) Learn with heart

Perhaps this is the element that most students lack – the passion to study. A student without heart will have to force himself to learn subjects being taught. Hence, he has to struggle to make himself learn and he of course would not be talking to himself about these subjects so he wouldn’t remember much of it. Imagine if you talk to yourself about those academic subjects you learn, everything would be at your fingertips.

Students who learn with heart will always find learning easy. They would never have problems in learning, even when they have, they would happily solve it without hurry and worry. A student with heart does not have to force himself to learn. Even when learning is difficult, students with heart will not have any problems but students without heart would have headaches.

4) Always understand how something works first before attempting any questions.

Such is the case with vectors, deductive geometry and many math topics which base a lot in understanding rather than simple calculations (matrix).

As emphasised by all the points before, understanding is of pivotal importance. You must make sure you have understood those concepts before you attempt any questions. Doing questions without comprehension is nothing more than bumping your head against the wall. Those examiners who set questions essentially want to test your understanding on certain topics. They are not going to award A to students who don’t understand the concepts. For easy questions, even if you don’t understand the concepts , you still can do. But how about long questions?

4.1) Only do questions when you have understood the concepts.

Knowledge is important, so is application. When we do questions, we are applying what we have learnt into the situations set by questions. This process is important because it makes us think. The prerequisite for doing questions is that you must understand the concepts first.

5) Don’t memorise unless no other options

Believe me or not, memorising is the harder than understanding. This is because memorising is not supported by reasons.Things that are not supported by reasons is usually short term. Memorising is different from using internal dialogue. You ground yourself, trick yourself into believing something strongly with internal dialogue and most of the time they are supported by logical reasons or maybe stupid reasons. But memorising is not supported by reasons at all. Therefore, stop doing it and use internal dialogue.

6) Be light and fluid

When learning something, always leave out all your pre-conception. This is to make your brains taking up the concepts easily, it’s like a little tricking process that helps trick your mind. If you are very pre-occupied, no matter what the books say or teachers say , you can hardly take it so chances are that you will not be able to grab something taught.

7) Use mnemonics

Using mnemonics or making short notes on what you have learnt can effectively improve your memory on them. It is advisable to only include necessary facts in your short notes and mnemonics. Remember, these mnemonics and short notes don’t help you to understand but to recall.

Exam tips

Avoid being habitual

Always be prepared for new challenges. Don’t expect all questions to be familiar or some sorts of questions you usually encounter. To avoid being habitual, you have to be aware of everything. In PA exams, in math exams, read all questions real carefully and understand what they want before you attempt to solve them. Use some logic in your thinking to solve them. Most of the questions in STPM these years are tricky because they want you to really understand. They don’t set straightforward questions already because they want you to think. Always analyse the questions carefully before you start doing. Know what they want and give what they want and they will give you what you want.

**credits to berryberryeasy.com =)

21-13 15-21 21-10

2010-11-21T23:14:00.003+08:00

Lin Dan wins in Badminton of Asian Games 2010.

Which means Datuk Lee Chong Wei lose to Lin Dan again.

Sad to see his dissappointed look =(.

It is heart-aching to see

Malaysian start 'worshiping' Lin Dan

and

'step' on Chong Wei.

HELLO!!

He's the best badminton player in Malaysia.

Shouldn't we, Malaysia, support him

with all our heart,

with all our mind,

and with all our souls?

*okay =.= i admit 'with all our souls' is a bit exaggerating*

Our supports are his strength!

Even if you don't support him,

Don't 'step' on him la weyy =(

He couldn't grab the Gold medal

doesn't mean

he never undergoes training enough lor wohkay~~

His training starts at 6am in the morning.

How many of you starts your work at 6am??

Tell me =.=

The name 'Lin Dan' pressured him a lot.

And Lin Dan is super geng when it comes to the net play.

" Dear Datuk,

You should reformat some part of your brain.

Don't let the name 'Lin Dan' pressurize you anymore.

=) "

Anyway,

Datuk Lee Chong Wei get another silver medal for Malaysia =D.

I still love you, Datuk!!

2010-11-19T23:33:00.002+08:00

Seriously unhappy right now...

STPM

2010-11-15T22:37:00.002+08:00

It's on Friday night

2010-11-14T02:12:00.003+08:00

I've gone to bed just now

but I just cant fall asleep.

Guess it's bcz of my 'sleeping time' had pass.

That is why I'm here bloggin at this hour.

ughh...if mum found out that I din sleep yet, she'll scold me again ><"

The Friday night's incident...

makes me recall what happened almost 3 years ago.

I can remember exactly when it happened.

It's on 'nin 29' night, just before Chinese New Year.

He told me that he wants to be friend with me.

His simple words hurt me so much.

Hurt so bad that it actually numb my brain cell from thinking of what to say.

It hurts even more when he highlighted the word 'Friend' in every sms he sent me.

I feel like my love had been rejected

even though I did not confess that night

and did not ask for anything.

We are already friends actually

but instead of telling him "wo men ben lai dou shi peng you a",

I replied "oh".

One of my friend thinks that replying him that way is very silly.

She thinks that I've lose my pride that way.

But I do not want to deny my feelings for him.

Yes.

I may deny my feelings for him in front of my other friends

but not to him...

Not when I thought he have the same feelings for me too.

At that moment,

I'm not ready and have no idea at all since when he already falls for another girl.

Some pity me because I've waited him for months...

Some angry of him for making me waiting for him...

while others think that I'm silly.

. . .

That very night,

I try to hold on my tears

that I could barely talk.

I thought...

It's not worth it to shed a tear for someone who doesn't loves me.

So I try really really hard to not to cry.

M asked me if him and me have started to build a closer relationship

so I told him what happened.

He couldn't believe that it turns the other way out.

I couldn't doze off until 4.30am ><"

I woke up at 9am the other day.

Once I opened up my eyes,

the incident night before keep on playing in my mind.

Tears roll sideway and wet my pillow.

I forced myself to sleep.

I tried very hard to sleep but I was not sleepy.

I was conscious and I can hear every footsteps that came into my room.

. . .

I finally wake up and left my bed exactly at 3.30pm.

Knowing that that day was 'nin 30',

I need to wake up and help my mum on preparing dinner.

I walk

I talk

I work

I eat

I do what I suppose to do like nothing ever happen.

The happening Chinese New Year

seems dull for me that year.

And I actually feel a lil frustrated.

He should have told me after Chinese New Year laa!

Haha!!

. . .

I'm bloggin about this

not because I want him or other friends to know how sad I am back then,

not because I am seeking attention neither.

I thought of jotting this down in case I'll forget about this in the future.

I'm remembering this not because I have not let it down yet,

but because it is a sad yet sweet and silly but funny experience =)

Oh..

Dun misunderstand.

Me and him are still good friends now.

Those 'sad' or 'not feeling good' feeling are already gone long time ago.

I can even hang out together with his girlfriend now.

Time is the best medicine =D

p.s I'm not bloggin about Friday night's incident

because it is not the time yet.

Time will reveal about it in the near future.

pp.s I din even cry this time.

2010-11-12T23:09:00.011+08:00

12 November 2010 10.53pm

typing this at 11.11pm

Desserts

2010-07-29T20:29:00.002+08:00

"STRESS"

Handle the verb above with care!

Some of my friend posted

'STRESSED is DESSERTS'

on their facebook wall.

Is it true ???

Perhaps...

If we know how to deal with Stress,

It will be like a dessert ba...

..........

I finally presented the 'Book Review'

during Muet class today.

I share with the class about the

CLEO Magazine.

I start reading CLEO since last year

and I get uncountable information

on Beauty, Fashion and Lifestyle.

I chose to present this magazine

because I want to share the advantages of

reading this magazine to my classmates

especially the girls =)

Woah~!!

That reason sounds very nice to hear hor...

That was my answer when my classmate asked me

why I choose this book

during the questioning session.

Erm...

Well~

Actually.... I'm just too lazy to read a story book laa =P

heee~~

I practiced giving my speech

for three consecutive nights.

And it's worth the effort

because Pn. Chan complimented me *^-^*

Thanks God a lot

because He helped me

to give my speech as what I've planed

though I'm nervous.

And my classmates actually din't

notice that my hands were shaking during the speech

haha...

..........

You have to be strong Lim Li Kar!!!

Luck will not always be on your side.

Do not always depend on God's blessing alone,

You yourself have to first put in the effort to be successful.

Believe that you can do it

though other people don't think so.

Have confident in yourself...

Because

If you yourself don't look good on yourself,

who else will??

:+:M3 @ku wO:+:

-No-more-11-

雨下一整天

10 Things You Probably Do Not Know About Me

嚴爵 - 好的事情

Will Homosexual makes a better Life Partner?

張學友 & 梅艷芳 - 相愛很難

戀人未滿 ♥

I Did It Again

All this while...

Kenangan bersama, Tiada kulupa

*Wish list*

It's A Happy Day =)

When one's mind goes the other way

Would you please STOP discouraging me?

因為愛 (Because of love)

How To Study

21-13 15-21 21-10

STPM

It's on Friday night

Desserts

Wish list